Bye, Ma: A letter to my mother following her passing

Shane Paul Neil
ZORA
Published in
7 min readAug 13, 2023

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My mother, Cynthia Rose Neil, died this weekend at the age of 77, two days before I planned a surprise visit. That visit would have ended nearly a dozen years of having not seen her or my father in person. A self-induced exile resulting from childhood trauma and a myriad of unresolved issues. In lieu of getting to see her one last time, I wrote this letter.

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Shane Paul Neil
ZORA

Writer (duh) and photographer. Bylines @levelmag @complex @ebony @huffpo shanepaulneil.com